I’m over at Dauntless Grace Ministries today sharing my heart. I would love for you to head on over and take a peek!
I’m over at Dauntless Grace Ministries today sharing my heart. I would love for you to head on over and take a peek!
No, not Barnum and Bailey’s.
In my crazy mind, it always seems like a “fun” idea to bring the kids along when the dogs have to go to the vet. My memory blocks what happened the previous time and I imagine us all skipping around, laughing, and bonding over the dogs being so cute at their checkup.
Pretty sure we de-callibrated the dog scale. If that’s a thing.
(For the record, Drew was 36lbs)
(I was not)
Another thing is that veterinarians are just that for a reason. They like dogs. If they liked kids they would’ve been a pediatrician. So it is a strange alternate universe when they look super pumped to see our dogs and weirded out by my kids. Although today they resembled wild monkeys so perhaps they were just worried about how to tranquilize a moving target.
So tomorrow, I will move my expectations a little lower and think twice before something seems like a fairy tale in my head. Because fairy tales don’t involve sweating, threatening, tattle-telling, and time out. They just don’t. I know they don’t.
It’s good to be back.
Y’all. I don’t know what to tell you. I have had such a hard time finding time to write this past year. And we’re all feeling the repercussions of that because either my brain can’t turn off at night (anyone else write stories in their head?) or Seth has to hear me talk a lot more than usual.
I should also mention that my laptop is getting ready to kick the bucket because it now refuses to type the letters “t”, “u”, “j”, or “p” without a really good pounding of the keyboard. This is super helpful, as you would imagine.
My friends and family have been so sweet in encouraging me to write because 1) I always wanted to be an author (nerd) and 2) did I mention that I write stories in my head a lot? In order to avoid the mental institution, I will just put my thoughts here.
I am super good at making excuses. And I will pile my to-do list with 100 things then get so overwhelmed that I can’t seem to do any of it. So I thought I would show you all the books on my bookshelf…that I have intended to read for some time…but just haven’t gotten around to it.
I have heard fabulous things about all of these! Amy Poheler (duh), Angie Smith (one of my faves), Candace Cameron (love a little DJ), Spending Less (no brainer), and SO looking forward to reading The Fringe Hours.
I’ve also got Shauna Niequist’s new devotional Savor on its way to my doorstep. Can.not.wait.Sadly, it doesn’t stop here. I have that handy dandy little Kindle that I am obsessed over filling with books.
Amazon seems to have free books for Kindle often so I am like a hawk downloading whatever I can for zero dollars. I probably have 20 more unread books on my Kindle.
Yes, it’s probably about time for an intervention.
Or an all-expenses paid, child free vacation where I can simply read all my books for 3 months.
Either work. Let me know.
Lastly, I’m excited to announce that one of my FAVORITE authors is coming out with her first Bible study on April 1! I’m part of the launch team to spread the word so would love you to share Angie Smith’s new study “Seamless” with your friends, family, women’s ministries, random people, etc.
God has gifted Angie with an incredible way of words and if this is anything like her other books, we will be blown away. More info coming soon.
If you’re like me, you’re so ready to see some sunshine this week! And hopefully ready to see more of the Anderles. I will give you a 34% guarantee I’ll be back soon…
Truly He taught us to love one another
His law is love and His gospel is peace
Chains shall He break for the slave is our brother
And in His name all oppression shall cease
Sweet hymns of joy in grateful chorus raise we,
Let all within us praise His holy name
Fall on your knees
Oh hear the angel voices
Oh night divine
Oh night when Christ was born
Alright y’all. Let’s get oily.
I’m sure by now you have heard all the rage about essential oils. You have no clue what they are but just know they’re essential, right? And oil. 2 points for you.
Essential oils have been used for thousands of years! They can be diffused, inhaled, applied topically, or even taken internally. Oils can be used to enhance your physical wellness, for purifying your home, refining your skin, and creating better awareness.
I was first introduced to these by a friend a couple years ago. I was getting terrible migraines and nothing worked. I was frustrated by the fact that I had to wait 6 hours to take another Excedrin and just had to deal with the pain. She gave me some peppermint oil to sample and I was amazed at how quickly the pain was gone. I remained skeptical but continued looking into essential oils and then went to a class where I learned about a wide variety of them and what they could potentially do for me.
There are many brands out there, but Young Living appealed to me the most. I purchased their starter kit, which came with 11 bottles of oil plus a diffuser.
The diffuser really sold me. It works like a humidifier…you fill it with water and then can add drops of whichever oil you’d like. You can use lavender to help promote relaxation and sleep, Thieves to help prevent illness, lemon for a fresh, invigorating scent…and that’s just a few. Each of these oils have a myriad of uses and are natural ways to help prevent illness and help heal your body.
Some of our favorite oils are:
(p.s. this was a difficult list to make…I really love them all!)
Deep Relief is one of the first oils I started with. It comes in a convenient roll on bottle and I use for headaches, migraines, and tension. Occasionally you may notice I smell like a peppermint. This could be why.
Enough said. DiGize isn’t the best smelling oil but works every time.
Ahhh…my favorite. This should be a touchdown with young kids. Peace and calming was out of stock for a couple months and I about died. LOVE how this smells! I apply every morning to my wrists.
RC is another awesome oil. We use this a lot in the winter when everyone gets all congested. It is being diffused a LOT this week!
Oh and how could I forget Thieves? This might be my second favorite. I try and apply this to the kid’s feet most nights as a preventative oil. As soon as they start getting a runny nose or cough, I will apply more. I’ve even been ingesting this in vegetable capsules this week so that I feel better sooner.
I could write 10 pages on what I love about oils but I’ll spare you the pain. I would LOVE to share more about these and answer any questions you might have. Feel free to comment on this post or email me (firstname.lastname@example.org).
If you’ve heard enough and feel that you’re ready to start on your very own oily journey…go to this link:
and you can sign up as either a wholesale or retail customer. (Enter my number #1780697 in the sponsor and enroller boxes) You have to buy one of the starter kits (I highly recommend the premium starter kit!!) to become a wholesale customer but the benefit is that your prices will be 24% less than retail! I’m also happy to add an oil or two to my monthly order if you’d like to try them out first.
These would be a great Christmas gift to you or a loved one this holiday season!
Better than those dress socks you know you’ll probably get anyway.
So I have had a couple questions lately like “Why are you drinking that crazy Juice?” or “Where is my friend Mary who eats all the Blue Bell?” or “What kind of oil are you using? Vegetable oil??”. I figured it was time to come clean.
About a year ago I decided to pay more attention to what I was letting fuel my body. I honestly didn’t care too much because I ate whatever I wanted and my body didn’t seem to change. Who cares, right?
I had no energy, was grumpy a lot, felt like I needed a nap every day, felt awful, had stomach pains almost daily, started getting terrible migraines, and worst of all didn’t get the greatest test results when I had bloodwork from a physical.
I understand there are worse problems out there but the idea of prevention versus treatment really resonated with me. I’m only 31 and hopefully (surely!) have more than half my life to go. I wanted to make sure I started taking better care of myself (and my family) NOW before it was too late.
I was introduced to this product by both my doctor and a friend at church. JuicePlus+ is whole food based nutrition, including juice powder concentrates from 30 different fruits, vegetables, and grains. JP+ helps bridge the gap between what you actually eat and SHOULD eat everyday. (Did you know you should be having 7-13 servings of fruits and veggies daily!) It’s not a multivitamin, medicine, treatment, or cure, but provides the natural nutrients your body needs to be at its best.
Speaking of eating real food, let me tell you what isn’t the best for your body:
Anything I was eating a year ago.
(Except I ate bananas occasionally. So those were fine)
There have been umpteen studies done on JuicePlus+ and how it can improve your health. Real, whole food is always the best option but can you consistently get the 7-13 servings of fruits and veggies every day…365 days a year? If so, I applaud you. Before I started this, I realized I probably had maybe 1 serving a day. ONE.
Since using JP+ we haven’t had any sick visits to the doctor (with small kids that is a feat!). JuicePlus+ has nutritional facts vs. supplement facts (compare to your daily multivitamin) so you can take as much as you need. Drew and I have felt a little under the weather this week so we have doubled up to help power our immune system and really flood our body with fruits and veggies.
You know what’s really scary? THIS:
Look at those stats. I do NOT want my kids to fall into those categories! More than 25% of kids on prescription drugs regularly?? Hardening of the arteries by age 12? I don’t think so.
I realize we can’t be perfect, and there are always going to be exceptions to eating our healthiest. But I have seen such drastic changes in this past year and more than anything, I feel confident that my family is getting the proper nutrition they need. There is so much I have left to learn but I have really enjoyed learning more about health and wellness and helping educate others on how to start taking care of themselves and their families.
The best thing is, you can get JP+ for less than a cup of Starbucks today (don’t lie, you know you’re headed there in the morning). It comes in both capsules (for adults) or chewables (for kids…or adults that want to be kids…i.e. me) and is safe for everyone! See, it’s not a crazy juice. There are no warning/risk labels to avoid if pregnant, nursing, sick, etc. JuicePlus+ is simply FOOD!. They also have some awesome Complete shakes that I use daily that are packed with lots of whole food phytonutrients and have improved my energy so much. I can’t imagine not drinking them now.
So that’s part 1 of who (or what!) has hijacked your dear friend. I am still here. Just healthier. A little less full of Blue Bell. And just trying to add a rainbow of healthy nutrition in my diet.
If you’re interested in learning more, check out my website at: maryanderle.juiceplus.com
What are you waiting for? Get a kickstart on YOUR New Year’s Resolutions and make a positive lifestyle change now. Before it’s too late.
Dum dum dum (imagine daunting, spooky music)
Next up. Why we’re so oily.
Oh, and maybe next up after that. Mary does boot camp. And why that is both entertainment and beneficial for her physical health. Really y’all…who am I?
I know what you’re thinking.
This soup is unfortunately not Transform30 approved, but I couldn’t help it. I haven’t cheated in forever and it’s just so DANG cold outside. And this is hands down our family’s favorite soup!
Broccoli Cheese Soup
6 tbsp butter, divided
1 cup carrot, chopped or shredded
3 cups low-sodium chicken broth
1/2 tsp garlic powder
2 cups milk
freshly ground black pepper
3/4 cup onion, chopped
4 cups small broccoli florets
1/2 tsp onion salt
4 tbsp flour
2 cups shredded sharp cheddar cheese
In a large stockpot, melt 2 tbsp butter over medium heat. Add the onion to the pan and saute until tender, about 5-7 minutes. Add the carrots to the pan and cook a couple minutes more. Stir in the broccoli, chicken broth, onion salt and garlic powder. Bring the mixture to a boil, then reduce the heat to a simmer.
In a medium saucepan, melt remaining butter. Add the flour and cook for 1-2 minutes until golden brown, whisking constantly. Whisk in the milk and cook until the mixture thickens and bubbles, about 5 minutes. Once the mixture has thickened, whisk in the cheese until completely melted. Remove from the heat and add the cheese sauce to the soup pot. Allow to simmer until warmed through and broccoli is tender. Season with salt and pepper to taste. If desired, puree the soup with an immersion blender for a smooth texture.
Everybody keeps telling me that I am on the BRINK of things getting easier with the kids. But it just seems like once we survive one challenge, another one arrives. The boys are as cute as can be but QUITE demanding. I mean really. Don’t they know I have things to do?
Actually I don’t.
But just look at those sweet faces…
So life. This year has been a year of finding balance and setting boundaries. Admittedly I haven’t done a fabulous job of that but I’m trying so I think that deserves 3/5 stars.
I still want to go a do a post on the boy’s 3rd and 5th birthdays because as much as I think I’ll never forget every detail, I am 9 years away from 40 and it’s bound to happen soon.
I’m mostly posting because I was recently told that someone I didn’t know read my blog. And my first thought was, “What has she been reading??”. HA. So I would LOVE for you to comment and let me know you’re still here!! I love to write and I haven’t done enough of it lately.
But for now let’s talk what we’ve been up to. I am still teaching accounting at the community college. #GodblessthefutureofAmerica
I can’t even talk about it. Y’ALL. The students of today are lacking something super important called AMBITION. Or another quality called TURN IN YOUR WORK.
On October 1, I also took on a 30 day health challenge (because why not, right?) called Transform30. My eating/exercise habits were pretty rotten. I wasn’t taking care of myself and we all felt the strain. I was tired, grumpy, my stomach always hurt, and had no energy. So the gist of the challenge was to eliminate dairy and wheat, reduce sugar, caffeine, processed foods, exercise 4+ times a week, and drink 2-3L of water a day along with using the JuicePlus+ complete shakes and trio of capsules. I also have become more aware of how my choices today will affect my health later in life (#remember9yearsto40) so that’s really why this has become so important to me and my family.
I have been posting healthy recipes we’ve been making on Facebook so now I’ll share them on here too. I would love to hear any ideas from y’all as well!
On tonight’s menu: Potato Leek Soup
I know what you’re thinking.
Where does Blue Bell ice cream fit into this challenge?
“It has become more vital to protect our own station than advocate for a world that needs Jesus, who came to us, wrapped in our skin, speaking our language. If we were not too beneath Christ, who died for us while we were still sinners, then how dare we take a superior position over any other human being? How lovely a faith community that goes forth as loving sisters and brothers rather than angry defenders and separatists.” (Jen Hatmaker)
So one of the first questions I received after yesterday’s post was…now what? HOW do we respond to this interruption? This passion? This unsettling? One of the first things we got involved in a couple years ago was an amazing organization in Conroe called Compassion United. It was formed after the Redus family set out one morning with a cooler full of breakfast tacos to meet the homeless in Conroe. They had no idea what they were doing, except that God had asked them to do it. 8 years later they have expanded into a large ministry that helps feed the hungry, teach life skills to those in their men’s shelter, help pregnant moms in crisis, and more.
Our Sunday school class started volunteering to prepare and serve dinner and/or breakfast every month or two at one of their locations. I was so overwhelmed and intimidated the first time we went. I had recently completed a study by Kelly Minter where she challenged us to actually know the needy so I intentionally introduced myself to those that I could. That day I met Diane. Her feet hurt, life was hard, and she just needed a good meal.
Every Tuesday in the summer our church helped prepare and serve breakfast to families in need in Willis, TX. My eyes were opened to the fact that many needy families struggle more in the summer to provide food to their children. Many of them live on one meal a day, if not less. During the school year they receive the free reduced breakfast and lunches so summer becomes a huge expense on these families. This was an activity my kids could attend too. We only got to go 2 times this summer but I love opening my kids eyes to serving others. We have also recently become involved with a kinship family through the Angel Reach organization. Angel Reach provides transitional services for kids aging out of the foster care system. They also help support kinship families – those that have taken in/adopted a family member’s child. Unfortunately these caregivers do not receive state funding, like in other adoptions. So depending on their situation, they may struggle with supporting the extra kids. Angel Reach provides them with food, clothing, home repair assistance, support, among many other things.
Meet Brenda and Loretta. Without hesitation, Brenda took in her husband’s 3 grandchildren when their mother lost custody. Her life was majorly interrupted 4 years ago.
Meet sweet sweet Norma. Don’t you want to take her home with you???
Loretta and Norma also have a brother but he runs too fast to be in pictures. I’m sure all you boy moms can relate.
We have just begun this relationship with their family but I have the privilege of speaking with Brenda (the mom/grandma) weekly and getting to know them better. Such a simple thing that has already blessed me so much. We are supporting them with several other families from our church group and are so excited to see how our resources and gifts can help them realize their own gifts. Sometimes it’s as simple as throwing an 11 year old girl a birthday party.
Sometimes you may have a neighbor that is in over their heads, new to the neighborhood, or struggling with something you don’t know about. Invite them over. Take them dinner. Offer to watch their kids. I’ve found that so many people are willing to accept help if needed, you just have to ASK. And if you don’t think you have anyone around you to help, just start praying. God will show you.
It all comes down to the fact that people crave relationships. Relationships with each other and hopefully a relationship with their heavenly Father.
“Church should be what ends up happening as a natural response to people wanting to follow us, be with us, and be like us as we are following the way of Christ.” (Jen Hatmaker)
I sit back a lot and get frustrated because I can’t figure out the end game. If God had given me a detailed outline of how my life would go and what I was supposed to do, it would’ve been super helpful. So we have decided to just say “yes” when we feel like God has called us to something and pray that what we do makes a difference in the lives of others.
Religion that God our Father accepts as pure and faultless is this: to look after orphans and widows in their distress and to keep oneself from being polluted by the world.
Another piece of advice I was given (but don’t always follow) is to keep your schedule as empty as possible so you are available to others. Intentionally set aside a day or two a week where you have no plans so when God comes knocking, you can answer. Maybe it’s unexpectedly being able to meet with someone who needs a listening ear. Or watching someone’s kids who need last minute childcare. Taking someone to the doctor. Satan rejoices in the fact that we are so BUSY. When we are busy we don’t have time to help others. We don’t have time to sit down and have daily quiet time with God. And sometimes I am leading the pack on this so have made it a goal to just slow down and be still whenever we can.
“Then the righteous will answer him, ‘Lord, when did we see you hungry and feed you, or thirsty and give you something to drink? When did we see you a stranger and invite you in, or needing clothes and clothe you? When did we see you sick or in prison and go to visit you?’ “The King will reply, ‘Truly I tell you, whatever you did for one of the least of these brothers and sisters of mine, you did for me.’
Just say yes. Start somewhere. We could not and have not done any of this without the help of friends who want to walk this journey with us. None of this has been done in our strength. God provides all that (thank goodness).
Would love to hear how any of you have answered your own interruptions!
Posting in 2 days has nearly killed me. Actually summer is about to kill me. I only have pre-schoolers and I’m still over it.
Hopefully we will be back to our regularly scheduled program come September when I finally have extra hours each week to use the restroom in peace and sit at the computer without someone trying to staple me to the office chair. Talk about interruptions!